Smart Dads

Connect with your kids all year long-not just on Father's Day. Paul Lewis, author of The Five Key Habits of Smart Dads ($15.99, Zondervan Publishing House), gives these tips:

Talk at bedtime. Jot down conversation-starters in a notebook. For example, ask your kids about a fear they felt today, their latest dreams, or what they'll be like when they're older. Note and date your children's answers.

Take a "fun" poll. Ask: What's the most fun we've had as a family in the past month? in the past year? ever? Have kids tell why and put a date on the calendar to do the events again.

Keep kids talking. Make a 20-minute recording of kids talking about topics such as weekend activities, the day at school, pets, hobbies, friends, and latest fads. Send a copy to grandparents and archive the original.

Get kids' advice. Spark family dialogue by reading "Dear Abby" letters and debating the advice. Have family members suggest solutions. They may even be better than Abby's advice!

Reprinted from For Parents Only, May/June 1995 (Children's Ministry).

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